Tone Tags , Status Abbreviations +more

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* some of these will have the same or almost the same meaning, therefore, some may be interchangeable or have multiple uses
* click title to see commonly used
* anything with a * beside it has already been mentioned! All links will be at the bottom of the page
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POSITIVE

A
/aff = affectionate
/adm = admiration
/amu = amused
/appr = appreciation
B
/br = bragging
C
/cel = celebrating/celebratory
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/exci = excited
F
/fr = friendly
/fx = flex
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/hap = happy
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/pos = positive
/pf = playful
/pstim or /pstm = positive stimming
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/rel = relieved
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/su = supportive
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/w = warmth
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NEGATIVE - ANGER/ANNOYANCE

A
/agg = aggression
/am = actually mad
/ang = angry
/ann = annoyed
B
/b = bitter
C
/com or /comp = complaining
D
/der = derogatory
/disr = disrespectfully
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/fru = frustrated
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/lm = little mad
/lu = little upset
M
/mad = mad
N
/nm or /nu = not mad/upset
/nmay = not mad at you
/ny = not yelling
O
/outr = outraged
P
/pa = passive-aggressive
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/sann = slightly annoyed
T
/th or /thr = threat
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NEGATIVE - SAD/ANXIETY

A
/anx or /anxi = anxious
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/co or /conc = concerned
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N
/nerv = nervous
/npr = not prideful
/nstim , /negstim , or /nstm = negative stimming*
O
/ovt or /ovth = overthinking
P
/pla = plaintive
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/w , /wd , /wor , or /worr = worried
/wh = whine
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NEUTRAL

A
/apa or /apath = apathetic
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/js = just saying
/jw = just wondering
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/li = literal
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/n or /neu = neutral
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JOKING

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C
/c or /copy = copypasta
/cb = clickbait
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/frj = friendly joke
/frt = friendly teasing
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/hj = half joking
/hjov = half jokingly overreacting
/hjpr = half jokingly prideful
/hs = half sarcastic
/ht = half teasing
/hy , /hyb , or /hyp = hyperbole
I
/i = ironic
/ij = inside joke
/intpun = pun intended
J
/j = joking
/ji = joking insult
/jk = just kidding
jov = jokingly overreacting
/jpr = jokingly prideful
/jq = joking question
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L
/la = laughing
/lhj = light-hearted joke
/lhs = light-hearted sarcasm
/lht = light-hearted teasing
M
/m = meme
/ma = messing around
/mhly or /mhlyr = misheard lyrics
/mj = major joke (when /j just doesn't convey how big the joke is)
/moj = mostly joking
/ms = mostly sarcastic
N
/nam = not actually mad
/nau = not actually upset
/nhyp = not a hyperbole
/nj = not joking
/nli = not literal
/non = nonsense
/npi = no pun intended
/nt = not teasing
/nsrs = not serious
/nsrsq = not serious question
O
/od or /odra = overdramatic
/otl = okay to laugh
P
/pl = please laugh
/pth = playful threat
/pun = pun intended
Q
/qj = quarter joking
R
/rq , /rh , /ret , /rhe , /rtq = rhetorical question
S
/s , /sarc , or /sar = sarcasm
/silly = silly (kind of like /j)
/spds = "stop... please don't stop" same as "stop /nsrs"
/st = self teasing
T
/t = teasing
/tfj = ¾ joke
/thj = jokingly threatening
U
/ui = unironic
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RELATIONSHIPS

A
/aes = aesthetic attraction
/ars = alterous attraction
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/fl = flirting
/fam or /fm = family (relationship)
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/lv = lovingly
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/nfl = not flirting
/nsx = not sexual
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/p , /pl , or /plat = platonic
/pfl = platonic flirting
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/r = romantic
S
/sens = sensual
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/x , /sx , or /xx = sexual intent
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VENTING

A
/ar = a rant
/av = a vent
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/ca = caring
/ci = caring intent
/cj = coping joke
/cf = comforting
/cwh = coping with humor
D
/dnc = do not comment
/dni = do not interact (can also fit in negative)
/dr or /nr = do not reply
E
/em = empathizing
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/gent or /gentle = gentle/gently
H
/h = helping intent
/hav = half a vent (when something isn't fully a vent)
/hsd = half self-deprecating
/hvy = heavy topic
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/jav = just a vent
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/lw = little worried
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/nar = not a rant
/nav = not a vent
/neg or /nc = negative (connotation)
/ngt = not guilt tripping
/nsd = not self-deprecating
/nsu = doesn't need/want support
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/rc = reality check (SOME DO NOT LIKE REALITY CHECKS)
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/safe = safe (no gore, nsfw, profanity, triggering topics, etc)
/sd = self-deprecating
/sv = soft vent
/sym = sympathizing
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/wsu or /ws = wants support
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SYSTEM

A
/alter = specific to a certain alter
/amh = at my headmates
B
/bm or /bdm = body memories
C
/cnh = character, not headmate
/coll = collective
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/exo = exo memories (memories the body did not experience)
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/hnc = headmate, not character
/hsp = headspace
I
/isys = in system
/iw = innerworld*
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/nisys = not in system*
/nptf = not pushing to front
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/osys = out of system*
/ow = outerworld
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/sta = source talk
/sys = system*
/sysij = system* inside joke
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/wp = wrong proxy
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UNCATERGORIZED - EMOTION

A
/ao = an order
/ap or /apo = apology
B
/bitsw = bittersweet
C
/cm = calm
/con = contradicting
/cr = cringey
/cu , /cur , or /curi = curious
D
/d or /dram = dramatic
/dev = devious or devilish
/dir = direct
/dp = deadpan
E
/e or /emb = embarrassed
/eth = empty threat
/ex = exaggerating
F
/fo or /for = forced
G
/gen or /g = genuine
/genc or /gc = genuine confusion
/genap = genuine apology
/gene or /genep = genuine explanation
/grq or /genrq = genuine request
/gensg or /gensugg = genuine suggestion
/gq or /genq = genuine question
H
/hlh = half light-hearted
/hpr = half prideful
/hsrs = half serious
I
/iwiwj = "I wish I was joking"
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/lh = light-hearted
/lo = longingly
M
/md = melodramatic
/msrs = mostly serious
N
/na = not aggressive/angry
/nao = not an order
/nb = not in a bad way
/nbr = not being rude
/nbv = not being violent
/nc = not condescending
/ncm = not comparing / not competing
/ncr = not creepy
/ng or /ngen = not genuine
/ngs = not a genuine suggestion
/nh = not hostile
/nha = not hating
/np = not pushing / no pressure / no problem
/npa = not passive aggressive
/ns = not sarcasm / not sure / not sad
/nt or /nth = not threatening
/nw = not weird
/nyf = not your fault
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/ob or /obs = observation
P
/par = parental
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/res = respectfully
S
/sin = sincerely
/srs = serious
/stim or /stm = stim(ing)*
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/ti = tired
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UNCATERGORIZED - GENERAL

A
/alt = alternative
/att = ask to tag
/ay = at you
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/cfc = censored for comfort
/cont = continued
D
/day = directed at you
/dkm = don't kill me -- when you have an/a opinion/joke you don't want to get killed for (mostly used in a not serious manner)
E
/ebh = everybody here
/edu = educational
/exa or /fexa = (for) example
/exp = explanation
F
/f = fake
/fb = flashback (can be used in negative contexts)
/fic = fiction
/fos = figure of speech
G
/gb = gibberish
/gs = general statement
H
/hc = headcanon
I
/imo = in my opinion
/info or /in = information
/ind = indirect
/irr or /irre = irrelevant
/iyc = if you're comfortable
J
/jai = just an idea
K
/key = keysmash (when you smash your keyboard like this hsdfh)
/kin = reference to a kin (NOT A SYSTEM TERM)
/kmed = reference to kin media
L
/l , /ly , or /lyr = lyrics
/lil = little space or regressed
M
/met = metaphor(ical)
/mani = manifesting
N
/naa = not at anyone
/naah = not anyone here
/nab = not a brag
/nafx = not a flex
/nai = not an insult
/naq = not a question
/nay = not at you
/nbh = nobody here
/nbs = nobody specifically
/nbyk = nobody you know
/ncb = not clickbait
/ndaah = not directed at anybody here
/nf = not forced / not fake
/nfta = not forced to answer
/nst or /nsb = not subtweeting
/ntar = not targeted
/nv = nonverbal
/nwa = no wrong answer
O
/ot or /of = off topic
/ovs = oversimplification
P
/para = paraphrasing
/pwr = ping when responding
Q
/q = question
/qu or /quo = quote
R
/ra = random
/ram = rambling
/rat = random thought
/ref = refrence
/rp = roleplay
S
/sbh = somebody here
/sugg or /sg = suggestion
/st or /state = statement
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/tan = tangent
/tic = when something was typed on accident because of a tic
/tq = typing quirk (can look l1k3 th1s (like this))
/tr = true
/ts = to self
/tsnc = there is no context
/ttms = talking to myself
/tys = typing stim* / when stimming* effects typing
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/unin = unintentional
/unr or /unre = unrelated
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/wc = with consent
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* putting "v" before a tonetag means "very". example: "I got ice cream /vvhap" (very very happy)

LINKS

* INT = interact
* -UC = unless close

COMMON

DNI = do not interact
OTI = okay to interact
IWC = interact with care

UNCOMMON

DNIUC = do not interact unless close
DNIUVC = do not interact unless very close
IWEC = interact with extreme care/caution
IWSC = interact with some care/caution
PI = please interact

VARIATIONS

DNIUEC = do not interact unless extremely close
IWCAUTION = interact with caution
IWECAUTION = interact with extreme caution
IWSCAUTION = interact with some caution

COMMONLY USED:

/pos = positive
/aff = affectionate

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COMMONLY USED:

/agg = aggression
/ang = angry
/mad = mad
/nm = not mad

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COMMONLY USED:

/anx or /anxi = anxious
/co or /conc = concerned
/nerv = nervous

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COMMONLY USED:

/neu = neutral

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COMMONLY USED:

/j = joke
/hj = half joking
/lhj = light-hearted joke
/nsrs = not serious
/silly

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COMMONLY USED:

/r = romantic
/p = platonic
/sx = sexual intent
/nsx = no sexual intent

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COMMONLY USED:

/neg = negative
/nav = not a vent

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COMMONLY USED:

/sys = system
/amh = at my headmates
/hsp = headspace

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COMMONLY USED:

/gen or /g = genuine
/genq or /gq = genuine question
/hsrs = half serious
/lh = light-hearted

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COMMONLY USED:

/info or /in = information
/lyr , /l , or /ly = lyrics
/nf = not forced
/ot or /of = off topic
/q = question

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!! this is nowhere near all of them! shoutout Tabz on my discord for making this list !!

ABT = About
AFAIK = As far as I know
AFK = Away from keyboard
B4 = Before
BC = Because
BRB = Be right back
BTW = By the way
DM = Direct message
FOMO = Fear of missing out
FWIW = For what it’s worth
FYI = For your information
GTG / G2G = Got to go
H8 = Hate
HMU = Hit me up
IDC = I don’t care
IDK = I don’t know
IIRC = If I remember correctly
IKR = I know right
IM = Instant message
IMHO = In my humble opinion
IMO = In my opinion
IRL = In real life
IYKYK = If you know you know
JIC = Just in case
JK = Just kidding
JW = Just wondering
LMAO = Laughing my ass off
LMK = Let me know
LOL = Laugh out loud
MFW = My feeling/face when
N/A = Not applicable or not available
NBD = No big deal
NGL = Not gonna lie
NP = No problem
NSFW = Not safe for work
NVM = Nevermind
OFC = Of course
OMW = On my way
OOTD = Outfit of the day
OP = Original post(er)
PDA = Public display of affection
PM = Private message
QOTD = Quote/Question of the day
RN = Right now
ROFL = Rolling on the floor laughing
SFW = Safe for work
SMH = Shaking my head
STFU = Shut the fuck up
TBA = To be announced
TBD = To be decided
TBH = To be honest
TIL = Today I learned
TL;DR = Too long, didn’t read
TMI = Too much information
TMRW = Tomorrow
TTYL = Talk to you later
TW = Trigger warning
W/E / WTVR / WTEVR = Whatever
WTF = What the fuck
WYD = What are you doing?

Q: What are tone tags?

Tone tags are used to show the tone of a message, and to help the reader understand what you mean.

Q: How do I use them?

You put them at the end of a message to convey the tone.
(example) "I hope everything is well /gen"

Q: Who are tone tags for?

Tone tags are mainly used for/by neurodivergent individuals, but neurotypicals can use them for many reasons.

Q: What is "neurodiversity"?

People who are neurodiverse will have one (or more) of the following listed here

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